I Think I Need a Spanking, Sir

Do you think you need to be punished? Been a bad girl? Do you actually like being spanked?

If you think you need a spanking, then it's likely that you deserve one. You could talk to your partner about your desire to be spanked and let them know why you feel that way. If they're willing to oblige, then great!If that doesn't work for you - then you might want to talk to me. Our conversation will happen online in absolute anonymity. You can be as open and honest as you like, because nobody will ever know it was you. This is the perfect way to let out all your fears and stresses.

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What punishment do you really need?

There's no one answer to this question - it depends on the person and the situation. Some people may feel that they need a strict punishment to learn their lesson, while others may prefer a more lenient approach. Ultimately, it's up to you to decide what kind of punishment you really need.Ask for what you need
Some woman in need of discipline have a quite concrete fantasy. It could be a firm over-the-knee hand spanking, a leather belt, or it could be a school paddle that your desires revolve about. Maybe it is a hairbrush - or even the cane. Or something entirely different?If you dare to write or tell me what kind of spanking or punishment your late night thoughts revolve about, we can expand on your ideas.But I really don’t know what I need
That's fine, you simply contact me, and we will find out together what punishment will work best for you.

Is it sexual?

For some, yes, for others, not. There is no doubt it can lead to immense arousal - more than you likely experienced ever before, if you find you're into BDSM and spanking.Physical punishment can also be a way of showing love and affection without it being sexual. For example, spanking, paddling, or caning can all be ways of physically expressing love without it being sexual."I suppose I am open to other forms of punishment but a good, old fashioned spanking is what I believe I need the most."Again for others it works indeed as a classical punishment that helps them to reach their own goals and build up solid discipline."I am not subservient nor do I wish to be. Rather, I want to become a better person and have come to believe that discipline, specifically in the form of spanking, can get me there."Sometimes, you did wrong, and you know it. You feel that you need a punishment to relieve you from your own sins."I really need a punishment that will make me feel the consequences of my actions. I need to be held accountable for what I did and feel the pain that I caused."